Our CHD story (CHD Awareness week series)


Precious Katie at 6 months

This story is a bit different to many you might read during CHD awareness week, Miss Katie’s story is kinda unique,

It began 16 and half years ago, it was a cool June day, it was the kinda overcast day that makes you want to crawl back into your bed with a good book and hot chocolate, despite this I was on my away to a local hospital.

Several days before my husband and I had been contacted about a little baby that had a complex Heart condition she had been in hospital for many months.

We had been foster cares for just 2 short years but, I was a trained Enrolled Nurse and we had what they needed “experience” with special needs kids.

We agreed to meet her……

As I arrived at the hospital I was met by our foster care agency worker Ali, and Katie’s Primary Cardiologist Dr J.

He looked sceptical even worried. He asked for us to follow him into a conference room, before us many people sat, all ready to tell us the worst possible outcomes that could be her life. I know they only wanted us to know the reality, but if I hadn’t of know better I would have thought they were trying to talk us out of taking her.

Despite this, the meeting with the staff went well. The Meeting was to prepare us for our life ahead with Katie. They informed us of the risks and the possible journey she might have.

The truth is nothing can prepare a family for CHD. The world of CHD is a new scary foreign world, it’s filled with situations that no baby or family should have to endure, with new complicated terms to learn, painful and stressful procedures, high risk surgeries, new challenges to over come, its just a whole new world.

Meeting Katie for the first time was magical………she was just so amazing, so happy and engaging, it was hard to imagine that she was the child that I was just been told may not survive, or at best live a life of life long disability………As I looked down at her over the cold steel bars for her hospital cot, I had NO choice but to take her home….She was so innocent, so fragile but so strong at the same time, how could I even contemplate leaving her, no matter what lay ahead.

It had been made clear to us by DOCS that it was thought that Katie would eventually go home to her first Mumma….She just had to “get her life together” so we just needed to care for her in the mean time……….So for now we just had to love and nurture her.

Katie had many issues. Her health was very fragile and a simple cold had us heading to ER so many times I lost count.325752_2045717669184_755943147_o

She had so many medications to learn. Her feeding turned into a constant battle of vomits out v’s calories taken in and her other medical issues a constant worry………Life with her was a roller coaster ride, but we adored her, even while we supported the plan to have her returned home we fell more and more deeply in love with her……..

Pretty soon, it sadly became apparent that although her first Mumma loved and adored her, she was not able to meet the requirements of DOCS and after several years DOCS asked us to be Katies long term Guardians.

At that time, here in Australia that didn’t mean we could adopt her……..But it was the next best thing and we became her legal guardians. That somehow seems so clinical, but it’s not. She is every piece our daughter.

I wish I could say that everything was great from then, but CHD could care less how much a child is loved, wanted or how much a child fights. CHD fights back and Katies medical issues continued.

As she grew from a baby, to a toddler, to a pre teen, so did the issues we found.

However, there was joy, oh so much joy, so many firsts we never thought we would see, so many laughs, and not a day goes by in our lives that we do not thank God for her.


While her CHD symptoms started to settle with her new Fontan(the 3 part open heart surgery to give her quality of life) circulation her undiagnosed Genetic syndrome had its way with her, on going feeding issues resulted in two surgeries, the discovery of a Submucosal cleft Palate also needed surgery…….then low density in her bones caused her arm to break when she got hit by a ball, her spine and feet decided not to grow correctly, and then she wouldn’t grow in height, or gain weight and the the list went on and on……but with every new discovery she would prove another prediction wrong293768_3857277117038_397327752_n

Might not walk – LAUGH AT YOU DR, she ran first,

Might not talk,. Seriously the girl she NEVER stops, she even sings!

Might not do well in school. Hmm she has had her fair share of A’s and is graduating from high school with a Score high enough for Uni this year.

Might not survive to adulthood……when she is 17 so nearly there.

She has had so many medical obstacles, so many issues, and she still does……..But her story is just beginning. She is a fighter….


While the truth is she does have complex CHD – in the shape of HRHS, and we do have to watch her closely, with new issues rising as others resolve, we have just come to know this is the nature of COMPLEX CHD.

It’s the very reason why I feel so passionate about everyone knowing about CHD, knowing and supporting CHD research and families in their communities.

If it wasn’t for the love and support we received in our new CHD Family all those years ago, we wouldn’t of come out as sane as we have (although some days I debate that LOL), if it wasn’t for the wisdom of the families that have gone before us or the Dr’s and nurses that dedicate their lives to kids like Kaite, we wouldn’t of been blessed to parent this amazing child.

Today Katie is doing ‘okay’, you can read about her latest issues here. This CHD journey continues and we are blessed to be celebrating another year with her here & another year raising Awareness.

Katie’s journey into our family was different to the norm, but her CHD story is very typical of children with complex CHD, so if you want to help, here is some of the things you can do.

Support business’s that support CHD. Support Sweet Hearts Day. Support local families in your communities raising funds and awareness, Make a Meal for a family in hospital or a family getting used to life back at home after a long stay in hospital. Support groups like Heartkids Australia or even great services like Breaking Down the barriers for Rural patients who support families from rural areas that find themselves in the big city with sick children and few resources. You could also donate and support the great work of The Fontan for Life campaign that is part of the Fontan Registry research.

ALSO keep your eye open this next week for the local businesses around Australia (and the USA) that are supporting local families and research into CHD.


Keep Safe and remember Life is Precious



Keep Safe and remember Life is Precious



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